It’s difficult to keep in contact with other people on this site that you want to see posts from. I think adding page posting and a messaging function would help with that a lot.
To make a new post you click here.
If you want to do a message, you can hit the plus sign, and a drop down menu will let you change it to a message.
Also if you want your message linked to a post you can click this arrow, and do the same thing with the dropped down menu. But when you send the message it will have a link to the post with it.